Not the right answer. The real one.
Ok but what
do you actually want?
Maybe where you are looks kind of like this. That's ok too.
Maybe you have an answer. Maybe you're wondering why it still doesn't feel like enough, or why you keep not going for it.
Or maybe you'd rather ignore this question like that voicemail you'll definitely "get to later".
Wherever you are, let's start there.
Ever have the sense there's this mythical destination where you'll have officially "made it" and can finally relax? You care deeply, you want to get it right, and you're maybe a little bit addicted to self improvement and have some unreachably high standards.
You too? Ok great, not just me. Pull up a chair, or a patch of grass if you prefer.
I've been untangling this stuff for years and I find more to untangle every day. I'm also a trained coach who has spent a lot of hours with people navigating exactly this.
This is coaching that starts with getting curious about your relationship with yourself. Not fixing, not optimizing. Just learning to hear your own signal underneath all the noise, and starting to trust it.
What tends to shift: you stop holding in the thing you actually want to say. You follow through on what matters, not because you found a work around but because something got out of the way. You start building a life that feels like yours instead of one that just looks right.
Hi! I'm Max.
I am trans, queer & neurodivergent, a certified coach, leadership trainer, PCT thru-hiker, and someone who blew up a life that looked right on paper to find out what actually felt like mine.
Several times. Oops :)
I love helping people reconnect with themselves and build a life that looks a lot more like who they actually are.
From what I've seen, everything else follows from there.
You don't have to have it all figured out to reach out.
30 minutes, free, no strings. We talk about what you want, or what feels off if you're not sure yet. You'll get a taste of what it's like to work with me. Ask me anything. It's a vibe check, for both of us.